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10/8/2021

 
I can no longer meet folks in the foothills of leadership
​Journey with me instead ...
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These lines and the poem below emerged as I reflected on with who and in what contexts I do my best work, the spaces that seem to make the biggest impact to those I come alongside, and where I am energised to be and do more.
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I can no longer meet folks in the foothills of leadership
Journey with me instead to the floor of the high valley
There we will discover clear sun lit air.
 
This may be the most exhilarating venture so far
One that goes through foggy uncharted territory
We will go with good strength and at a steady pace
Stilling, tenderness and spaciousness will companion us
Approaching hard edges with softness.
 
And we will come into the dark
Into the layers and roots of the ground of our forming
We will confront our own mythology
We will discover our souls yearning
And within find courage for the venture on.
 
There will be losses along the way and much to gain,
previously unknown or never thought possible.
We may not know where we are or where we have been
until emerging on the floor of that high valley,
some distance from where we started
and very close by.
 
The tall snow-capped mountains
more recognisable and friendly now
There is magic in this place
and it may feel like magic got us here.

It is not that I see no value in what I called the foothills of leadership. In fact, they are very necessary. It is simply that I do not really live there any longer. My point is that the foothills are thoroughly developed, there is an abundance of leadership models (I added my own and have several other favourites). So go adopt one or create your own. Be sure that it aligns with your stance and worldview as a leader and put it into action.
 
Then be prepared to move beyond it – that’s what the work up to the high valley is about. And as with any worthwhile venture there is no shortcut to ‘doing the work’, yet with intentionality and discipline a joyful dedication emerges, and at times the alchemy of devotion.
 
Our way will be sustained by:
  • intentionality and practice
  • self-reflexivity
  • honest self-assessment and authentic dialogue
  • journeying over time and with good cadence
  • exploring ancestrally and systemically
  • being ‘public’ about the path and the experience
 
If you want to explore and grow in this way, a way that is an expression of purpose and becoming, then my offer is to be a witnessing companion on your journey. I will encourage you to discern your own purpose and the intention of your life and work, to explore the deeper possibility behind events and circumstances, to see our world as one of possibility and interconnectedness. We will often be working with what I call the beauty of the end grain – the overlooked or unseen, the unknown, even the unspeakable or the untouchable.
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On becoming who you can be

10/8/2021

 
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What is the way of living that I secretly hope for, hope for so much that I have blocked myself to even ask the question until now?

Who am I in the world that I so long to be that the ache hurts, yet when I am in touching or grasping distance, I close my fingers knowingly too soon?


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Too many times we experience a magnetic repulsion of our dreams and give in to forces and voices that would turn us back. This may reflect patterns established in early years showing up still in adulthood.

Yet now we are in a different context and with different resources and choices available. If we can reach out and hold the tension just a little longer, the world turns with us, and we are pulled on.
 
By gently moving into the different conversation, into what might be a new or bigger identity and sense of self; by keeping our hand open just a little longer, open to a brush with possibility, then we might experience the magnetic attraction that always accompanies something worthwhile.
 
The is a titration movement, just a little then a little more, no more that might crack the spell, no less that might lose the tension.

​Approaching hard edges with softness.
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